In the hustle and bustle of our everyday lives, it’s easy to feel disconnected, lost, or even adrift. We often find ourselves yearning for something more, something that brings meaning and purpose into our existence. This is where the concept of synchronicity comes into play—a guiding force that leads us to the people, events, and circumstances that align with our true selves and deepest desires.
So, what exactly is synchronicity? In its simplest form, synchronicity can be defined as the meaningful coincidence of events that are seemingly unrelated but hold significant significance to an individual. It’s about recognising patterns and connections in the world around us, and understanding that there’s a deeper meaning behind every encounter and experience we have.
I recently listened to an episode of the Mel Robbins podcast: Three Ways to Brainwash Yourself for Success and a More Meaningful Life. I was struck by the simplicity of what was shared and the thing I loved best about it was Mel’s comment on coincidence versus synchronicity. Her point of view, was ‘why wouldn’t you choose that the universe is conspiring to help you?’. Instead of merely shrugging something off as a weird coincidence that meant nothing, you could instead embrace these moments as clear and divine signs that you are on the right path!
After madly scribbling notes as I listened, I wanted to share with you the three key tips to help you create more synchronicity in your life:
State it and Claim it:
The first step in harnessing the power of synchronicity is to clearly define what it is you desire and declare it to the universe. Whether it’s finding a fulfilling career, nurturing meaningful relationships, or cultivating inner peace, be specific about your intentions and vocalise them with conviction. By stating your desires out loud or writing them down, you are sending a clear signal to the universe about what you want to manifest in your life.
Remember, the universe responds to clarity and intention. When you state your desires with confidence and belief, you open yourself up to receiving the guidance and opportunities that will lead you closer to your goals.
A really important part of this hack is once the thing happens – you need to claim it and own it! Say you are asking for a shopping lane to open up because the line is so long, and you focus intently on this outcome, imagining the emotion and excitement when it happens. Then, suddenly, a clerk walks to a closed checkout and opens it. At this moment, you give yourself a mental high five and totally own that you made it happen. Acknowledge your power!
Align Your Energy with What You Want:
Synchronicity is not just about wishful thinking; it’s about aligning your energy with the frequency of your desires. This means cultivating a mindset of abundance, positivity, and gratitude, even in the face of challenges or setbacks. It also means putting yourself in the emotion of the outcome you desire. Imagine you have received the outcome and the emotion and energy that comes with it and feel that. The energy of what you’re creating must match the energy you’re feeling.
Mel suggested a powerful hack to shift your energy and align with what you want using music. Create a mood-shifting playlist comprised of 12 songs that evoke feelings of joy, empowerment, and inspiration. Choose songs that resonate with you on a deep level and lift your spirits whenever you listen to them. Whether it’s upbeat anthems, soothing melodies, or soul-stirring ballads, let the music wash over you and elevate your mood. You can then use this playlist as an external trigger whenever you need to lift your vibration. In time, you will find you don’t need the playlist anymore, but this is a great way to get you started. Plus who doesn’t love a banging playlist!
Here’s a sample playlist to get you started:
“Roar” by Katy Perry
“Brave” by Sara Bareilles
“Ain’t No Mountain High Enough” by Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell
“I Will Survive” by Gloria Gaynor
“Beautiful” by Christina Aguilera
“Unwritten” by Natasha Bedingfield
“Stronger (What Doesn’t Kill You)” by Kelly Clarkson
“Rise Up” by Andra Day
“I’m Every Woman” by Chaka Khan
“Firework” by Katy Perry
“Girl on Fire” by Alicia Keys
“Fight Song” by Rachel Platten
Play your playlist whenever you need a boost of positivity and watch as your energy shifts to align with the abundance and opportunities that surround you.
Find a Bigger Meaning:
In our quest for synchronicity, it’s essential to look beyond the surface and seek out the deeper meaning behind the events and encounters in our lives. Instead of dismissing coincidences as mere chance, consider them as signposts guiding you towards your true purpose and calling.
Take time to reflect on the patterns and connections you observe in your life. What recurring themes or symbols are presenting themselves to you? What lessons can you glean from these experiences? By finding a bigger meaning in the synchronicities that unfold, you can gain valuable insights into your journey of self-discovery and personal growth.
Something I use in my life and have shared with my children is the idea of a spirit team around us, supporting us. We each have a sign that shows us that we’re being supported. Mine, for example is a purple car. Whenever I see a purple car, I give an internal nod to my spirit team for being around me and supporting me.
You can also use animals or wildlife to represent a particular person, especially one that has passed or you can not communicate with on this plane. We as a family are often visited by Willy Wag Tails, and we attribute these visits as a sign that the energy of a close friend who is in a medical condition that does not allow us to communicate with him currently. It is incredibly uplifting and affirming when the Willy Wag Tail shows up, especially when we are making a tough decision or contemplating something deeply in our lives.
Creating synchronicity is not about forcing outcomes or chasing after miracles; it’s about surrendering to the flow of life and trusting that everything is unfolding exactly as it should. By following these three tips—stating your desires, aligning your energy, and finding a bigger meaning—you can invite more synchronicity into your life and embark on a journey of deeper connection, purpose, and fulfillment. Embrace the magic of synchronicity, and watch as the universe conspires in your favour.
Live, Love & Laugh,
Tash x
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